70,560 minutes.
1176 hours.
Or 49 days.

Regardless of how you break it down, it was time for David to come home.  It’s 2:30 AM and I’m being kept awake by a plethora of constant beeps, blips, and whistles of a thousand monitors. By now, I recognize them all by heart. A chime for an empty feeding tube notification, intermittent beeps for a dip in SpO2, and high pitched alarms for bradychardia (heart rates that dip below 60 BPM). You’d be amazed at what you pick up standing on the sidelines. So much in fact, that I’ve taken to providing incident reports on the other babies in David’s room when the nurses return from their lunch breaks. I may or may not have an honorary male nurse badge. Just saying.

As most of you already know, Ariel and Jaslyn have been home for several days now, while David was left behind, waiting for the green light. What we didn't initially disclose to everyone, was that shortly after birth David was affected by an intestinal issue that would require him to stop feeding for two weeks. As a result, he would have to relearn how to feed, how to take a bottle, and how to digest food all over again.  While his sisters gained weight and mastered their bottle feeding, David - born heavier and larger than his sisters - fell behind.

And so here we are, at 49 days with David refusing to sleep on my chest and battling the hiccups. His discharge was delayed yet again after we initially believed that he would be going home on today (Friday, 9/30). Disappointed? Absolutely. But also encouraged. And content. And thankful.

Encouraged because what’s one more day when we've already conquered 49? I’m content, because there’s scarce a thing more valuable in this world than the health of your child. Thankful, that the hospital was not in a rush to push him out, leaving his mother and I to deal with these issues on our own.

Just yesterday, David and I watched on as one of his neighbors, almost half his size, was discharged to leave. While being much smaller physically than David, his vital signs were exceptional and he passed every exit test that the hospital placed him through. Before leaving, I prayed with the mother and the grandmother over our sons, for protection against this world that they will soon inherit and for continued good health. I would be lying if I said that a piece of my heart didn’t break at seeing that son leave before mine. But what’s another day, right?

Later that day, I returned to find the vacant spot in the room filled. Another day and another young life. We had new neighbors. As I stepped in, the pale hue of UV lights washed over the room and over my thoughts. This new baby was undergoing treatment to stave off jaundice, just like David did shortly after being born, 49 days ago. I had the pleasure of meeting his beautiful family, a friendly couple with older children. Over the course of the next 24 hours his dad and I (we’re now “Baby Bros”) traded stories and jokes. It might seem like a trivial thing, but that kind of friendship and kind interaction between parents in the long nights and mornings at the NICU is medicine for the soul. Our conversations kept my mind off the time as hours flew by and we still had not heard anything regarding David’s discharge. And he and his family were the first ones that I celebrated with when I finally got the doctor’s call and discharge notes.
We were so excited that I couldn’t stop for a moment and take the moment in fully while scrambling to leave the hospital as quickly as possible. But looking back now, 24 hours later, we couldn’t be more blessed. Healthy babies, loving nurses, attentive doctors, new friends; everyone that we encountered with over the past 2 months have played a part in this story that we’ll never forget. But I would be completely remiss if this chapter wasn’t closed off right.

Not so simply put, Thank you. To every loving nurse, every befriended mother and father, every caring physician, every praying member of the maintenance and cafeteria staff, and to every smiling greeter/security guard that recognized us day after day after day. Thank you for being a part of this story. You have our gratitude and gratefulness as we hope that you will one day see these words of appreciation. Thank you for each playing a part in helping us turn the page on this chapter .

72,000 minutes.
1200 hours.
Or 50 days later.


Tiffany P
10/02/2016 8:03pm

God is so amazing! I rejoiced with you both and will continue to lift your family up in prayer!

Monet P
10/03/2016 8:17am

Thank you for the prayers Tiffany!

01/26/2017 6:46pm

I was moved in this story. Thank you for sharing this with us. I hope David is better now. I admire your patience. You truly show your love and care for David.

04/03/2017 6:48pm

Godbless to David and congratulation on giving birth. It's very heartwarming to all the mothers that they gave birth to their children. The baby is very cute and beautiful like an angel. You have blessed a wonderful baby, I hope this baby will have an amazing personality and very talented. Thanks for sharing this article to us, I wish you a good life.

Vicki Picco
10/03/2016 5:52am

David, this was so beautifully said. I am truly blessed to know you and Monet and of course those beautiful babies. I look forward to following this beautiful journey. PS remember I live in Brevard too. Love you guys.

Monet P
10/03/2016 8:20am

Thank you for your kind words Vicci. We completely forgot you live in Brevard! Can you send us your email and contact number? You can use the registries tab and scroll down to send us a private message. :)

10/03/2016 7:23am

Woohooo! God Bless him, your entire family, and everyone you all encountered. Such a great testimony.
Still praying...

Monet P
10/03/2016 8:22am

Thank you Taloya!! We are so late in thanking you for the cards! Oh goodness, we were so overwhelmed by all of the kind words, love and prayers!!!!!! THANK YOU!!! We will be getting our act together soon and creating thank you cards. Would it be best to send just one to the church or group? Please let us know.

10/04/2016 5:33am

Taloya, I am so sorry for getting back to you so late. We've been moving so much that I didn't check the po box until just a few weeks ago. The cards were simply phenomenal. Thank you for taking the time and heart to put us before the Lord and your church family. We're working on something to show our gratitude, but in the meantime, please give our thanks and humbled appreciation to your church for standing in the gap for us. Every prayer was answered and every petition was met. Please, let everyone know how grateful we are.

10/03/2016 8:44am

I do enjoy reading both of your inserts, it helps all of us that have prayed for all 5 of you from day one, really feel like we have been there with you all every step of the way. Thank you Jesus, all the babies are all home safe with vivid sounds. I'm counting down the days before I get to meet my amazing little fighter cousins. Love you all, and forever lifting you up in prayer.

10/04/2016 5:29am

Thank you, Syreeta. I can't wait for you to meet them. They're already a trip. I'll call you later this week to see if we can link up before I go back to work. Lord willing this storm will blow back out to sea.

June hartley
10/04/2016 4:16am

Beautiful writing, David. I had tears in my eyes as I was reading. God be with all five of you!!

10/04/2016 5:27am

Thank you so much, June! We just want to share these babies with the world.


The baby is really wanderful and I hope he will be happy in his long lovely life.

04/06/2017 10:35pm

Such a cute little sleeping creature.

04/06/2017 11:42pm

They are looking cute while sleeping.

04/16/2017 11:26pm

What is his name?


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    About David

    Born in Georgia, and raised in South Florida, David is a finance and banking manager with a love for writing, artistic creations, athletics and youth development.  He completed a Liberal Arts and Sciences degree in Sociology at the University of Florida in 2003, and began his career in Jacksonville, FL.   His career took him to Charlotte, NC, where he met so many of his closest friends and experienced both professional and spiritual growth. Davids love for writing began as a youth, but he kept his work private, sharing his words only with closest friends and family.  He is the sole inspiration for this blog, having shared his personal experiences on the other side of infertility and the journey towards a family.  Expectant fathers are rarely given the platform or opportunity to speak about their emotional journey during pregnancy leaving their feelings and fears often unexplored. David's goal was to provide a place where both parents would be free to learn, grow, and most of all, feel safe in sharing. 

    David and Monet lead quiet lives, returning back to Florida in 2013 and becoming involved in their local AME church and fraternal organizations.  David and Monet married in 2011 and have one Dachshund named Lebron (yes, after that Lebron). They both strive for peace within their lives and their home, and love to be surrounded by family and close friends.  David and Monet both believe in miracles and God's rich blessings and they pray you enjoy this look into their experiences.